<span>Monthly Archives</span><h1>January 2021</h1>
    Message, Special Message

    PROTECT YOUR MARRIAGE!

    January 12, 2021

    Even if you are married to the best spouse in the whole world, if you do not guard your heart, you may end up “falling in love” with someone aside your spouse and eventually ruin your marriage.

    No one gets married and plans to have affair but lots of married men and women are into affairs today because they slept when they should have been wide awake with their five senses alert.

    1. Don’t be too friendly with the opposite sex.

    This is where lots of married people land in trouble. Over spirituality and pride will destroy your marriage! You can’t handle close

    friendship with the opposite sex as a married person. Your heart is involved.

    Set boundaries.

    Be disciplined.

    Be cordial.

    Be respectful.

    Be godly.

    Be holy.

    2. Don’t share your personal problems with an opposite sex friend. It will bond you together. Problems bond people.

    3. Don’t contact any opposite sex you are fond of.

    If you secretly admire them, you are fond of them and there is a tingling in your heart at the mere thought of them, avoid contact!

    4. Avoid unnecessary eye contact that lingers with the opposite sex.

    5. Don’t tell an opposite sex you are romantic or sexy. That private information is for your spouse only.

    6. Avoid discussions with the opposite sex when you are tired, very sad, depressed, sorrowful, drowsy, sleepy or very sick.

    This can cloud your judgment and make you say silly things. Talk to your husband/wife instead.

    7. Avoid unnecessary compliment of the opposite sex.

    8. Stop saying “I love you” to the opposite sex. For what?

    9. Work on your Marriage. Keep the fire of love and romance alive in your marriage. Do to your wife what you would have thought towards that lady.

    10. Protect your Family.

    Don’t share your marital problems with your opposite sex friend. It will bond you.

    11. Never flirt with the opposite sex.

    12. Mind the pictures you post on social media. Limit your pictures especially that which shows your curves or portray you as sexy.

    13. Do not contact all your Ex after marriage. Break the bridges.

    14. Don’t chat with the opposite sex on the days you are horny.

    15. Stop focusing on your spouse’s weaknesses and appreciate their strengths.

    If you always see the bad side of your spouse, you will be angry, bitter, critical and look for someone who can “understand” you and make you happy aside your spouse. That is the beginning of an emotional and eventual sexual affair. It is the beginning of the end of a once glorious marriage!

    What you will not eat, don’t bring it to your nose. Don’t smell it!

    Don’t start what you cannot finish!

    Avoid all emotional and sexual affairs. They will destroy your marriage!

    Let this message get to the Good Women Leader and Men’s Fellowship Leader and let them share it on their various group platforms so all married men and women will get it. Let them discuss it at their meetings.

    The Lord will keep our homes and marriages. Amen

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    Message, Special Message

    THE SALT OF THE EARTH

    January 12, 2021

    A salt has no look like other ingredients, sends out no aroma like other seasonings, but without it the soup is tasteless.

    Men of true impact don’t fight for position, visibility or appearance.

    Their results speak for them not their propaganda.

    You don’t need to shout to be heard, people keep quiet to listen to intelligent people

    A salt maintains its integrity amidst pollution.

    Have you seen where a salt buyer demands to taste it before buying? because salt has proved its integrity over the ages.

    if you will need to swear before people believe you, you lack integrity.

    Is your life a salt to the earth or an insult?

    The easiest and only way the salt can lose its taste is when mixed up.

    Watch your association this year, you are too needed to be wasted..

    Be a salt not an insult.

    Message

    My First 2021 lesson

    January 12, 2021

    On my way back from church, this first Sunday in Jan. 2021. I decided to take a walk home following a quiet street not far from the church and my house and on the quiet street that leads to the major road where I live, a group of children where on their way back home too, obviously from their own church. The noise they were making behind me was pleasant as it kept me company and warm. I turned to steal a glance at them.

    There were two young girls probably 7 and 8 years or there about and their young but older teenage sister, maybe 13. Matured and very beautiful.

    They were chatting nicely and happily behind me, the two little girls started running, obviously they must have sighted their house and suddenly the teenage girl said with a loud voice, “without me, you cannot open the door because I have the key. So you are just running.” 

    (She said the “just running” with a voice that shows that it was a fruitless effort.)

    She said it with a note of confidence and finality in her voice. There was this authority in the way she announced it with a gentle but definite voice. Then her little sisters drew back to her. After few minutes, they started running again and she announced, ” without me, you can not enter, so you are just running for running, just for running”.

     Then again, the little ones, drew back to her. This they did for few more times or so and she kept announcing with a loud voice,  “without me you cannot enter! I have the key!

     Then the Holy spirit asked me, ” Who does she sound like?”

    Then I told myself that her words sounds so much like the words of Jesus, #John 15:5  ….without me, ye can do nothing#.

    I smiled and listened to the discussion the Holy spirit was bringing up. At this point, they have caught up with me and I turned with a smile on my face and took a good look at the three of them. And the lord continued speaking within me and I was enjoying every bit of it.

      Then I noticed that there was a woman and a little boy ahead of me but a bit far. Then I heard the teenage girl say again… “Mummy and Ire are just running for nothing. Without me, they cannot enter.”

    At this point a man was passing by and heard her, he laughed a bit and shook his head and I felt that probably he got the message that the girl was rechoing almost the same words of Jesus. “Without me, you cannot enter”.

    Then I noticed the woman ahead was her mom. At this time, her two little sisters have gotten the message and stopped running. They were now steadily walking by her side. No more running. Then the younger of the two girls said quietly, “Mummy and Ire, they are just running, they don’t know that without my big sister, they cannot enter”.

    I told myself that the mother should have known better and the Holy spirit replied me asking, ” How many of you know better?”.

    The Holy spirit took over and ministerd to me, a whole lesson of my 2021 future endeavours and efforts. (Time will not permit me to share all.) But Let me ask you friends, do you know that if you start any business run now, or relationship run, or academic or ministerial run or anything at all without Him. You cannot open the door of success when you get there? Because He alone has the key and without Him, ye can do nothing! You will just be running for running sake. It’s called rat race.

    Few steps ahead, the mother stopped at their black gate ahead and waited till the custodian of the key arrived. She stood under the sun, stranded till the teenage girl arrived. I took a good look at the faces of the beautiful girls the lord used to teach me, smiled at them and passed, headed for my own house with a lot of lessons learnt from the family.

    Pls don’t just be running in 2021, without Jesus you cannot open any door.

    Wait on God, move only when He moves, stay by His side, walk with Him.

    For without Him ye can do nothing

    Shalom.